This is discussed further in the section Why This Works. Help us keep this site organized and clean. It turns out that he has been spanking our little boy for nearly a year, behind my back, and counting on the child's immature speech to keep it from me. I agree, consent for doing spanking gor erotic reasons or if your partner enjoys it masochism, etc is fine. A Married Woman's Guide. You can not hold onto any part of the child's body when spanking. We will see how that goes.
True enough, but there are still plenty of occasions when I choose to use my hand for my own satisfaction, as a quick reminder - or "just because"! Anonymous June 13, at 4: After my spanking my wife leads me to the corner and has me stand there with my glowing red bottom on display. You should not just thank him for spanking you, you should also thank him for helping you to grow as a person and to be a happier person.
Because you are tired of always hurting yourself and the people around you with words and actions that are unproductive and sometimes hurtful. I imagine you are much better behaved now, than before the spankings began with your partner. All that said, I loved your story. I am placed over her knees basically on all fours but just over her knee. When applied to non-sexual situations like feminine misbehavior and domestic disharmony, Loving Domestic Discipline becomes a powerful and loving tool for personal growth and relationship improvement.
Unlike men, women don't reach an age when spanking them is no longer effective. He may actually start to beg as soon as hears what I plan on doing because he knows that sitting will be a real pain in the ass until three or four days after it is over. However, I have spanked her for erotic reasons, and as part of sex, on many occasions and far harder than the disciplinary spankings. You can not hold onto any part of the child's body when spanking. No one made eye contact as I gingerly sat down for dinner. This is where I become confused.